My spouse and I had to stop hanging out with some friends and call off the friendship because they were affecting our mental health. Both of these people had crushes on both my spouse and I, we didn't have the same feelings. They wanted us to be in one huge poly amorous relationship, but we're not interesting in having one, our relationship is a monogamous one. We were creeped out by this so we stopped being friends with them. They also wanted us to move in with them, both of them couldn't drive so they were looking to take advantage of my spouse and I. They were both narcissistic too, it was a huge mess.