Red flags in a relationship for me include any form of disrespect, like dismissing my opinions or feelings. I also look out for lack of communication or honesty, as these are crucial for a healthy connection. Controlling behavior or excessive jealousy can be concerning, as they often signal deeper issues.  if there's a pattern of unresolved conflicts or if one person consistently undermines the other’s boundaries, it’s a significant red flag. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication.