[QUOTE="Zach,  post: 28502, member: 162"]
I believe in positive reinforcement, it’s a great alternative and it’s a new direction for the old approach.
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I believe in it as much as possible, but sometimes you gotta put your foot down.

Like I remember my relative (middle school age) was so mean and was living in our home.  Nobody would punish him because it was the grandparent's house.